From this view, he could feel more like you are his mother instead of his W. You talk to him as if he's another one of the kids, and you even give him an allowance. I would tend to believe his self-respect is pretty low at this point, maybe even depressed, IDK.
What man wants to have a mother for a W? It sounds like a recipe for an A with some hottie.
You have good reason to be resentful toward him, but I'll bet those feelings show up to him, also. It sounds as if he just shoves it to the rear and doesn't try to change anything.
Would you say you are you a perfectionist?
And HOW do you know how I talk to him? Today was the FIRST time I told him no to one of his constant requests! Normally, he Rules On High! Sorry, you're not going to convince me it is my fault if he cheats on me because I'm just too nice and generous and obedient. That is HIS fault.
MY fault if I let myself be a doormat to the point I get hurt. Which I have.
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