As usual your thread takes on life and runs with it. Yet I see the same conversation being made.
Even a broken clock is right twice a day.....Meaning there is wisdom in every poster regardless of what is said.
The trip to disney was not such a good idea but you already knew that.
I know you do not like what I am going to say and for that I am sorry
I agree with Lotus
Your desire to defend your W's image is admirable but the facts are the facts.
I do not believe that what Lotus is saying has anything to do with not supporting DB or saving a M, with respect to dmod, but DB does not teach us to be blind to obvious truth that are laid out before us.
The blame has been assigned, the forgiveness has been asked for now it is time for you to live your life.
Will she regret it?
We all seem to assume they will but the truth of the matter is we might never know.
Will she come back?
Again, no one knows.
At some point you must say enough is enough and start to make adjustments to live your life with or without your W.
I believe that for the first time you are starting to see clearly and you are starting to take the blinders off, perhaps you have reached your pain threshold.
I know you love your W, and I believe she loves you but what would reconcialion look like today, if she were to call you tonight?
My guess is that YOU would put the breaks on as well you should.
Going dark?
Well what makes you feel good Denver?
Do you crave talking to her?
Going completely dark is not what I would do if I were in your shoes but def not being available everytime your W wants to fill some emotional void by talking to you is is something I would do.
Very few people know my sitch like you do.
Right now your W has very little doubt what you want, in fact, I would say that she knows she can get you to do just about anything she wants or needs because you are "desperate".
How do you erase that image?
By moving on.
I am not much on this faking till you make it stuff cause I believe it is false.
I like reality
Move on, live your life and through your tone of voice, you words, your actions and your demeanor you will display your williness to really move on.
When she feels like she is losing you my guess is that you will get a few different responses
Anger and blame first followed by increase contact.
Are you keeping track of what is going on with me?
