As for the games, the whole point of an open marriage is to end the games. If there are still games in an open marriage then your partner is really a scoundrel since it's supposed to remove all incentives for secrecy.
Needless to say if the games continue or get worse I'm out. My definition of an open marriage is one where each fulfills there needs in and out of the m with the others consent. Once this bugs me to much I'm out.
For those guys that think I'm selling out my respect I understand, on the other hand and some buddies are already planning some crazy nights of debauchery. Itll be nice to do it without the guilt I'm trying to see it as pros and cons.
