Thanks for the info on the situation, 25. In many ways, this is exactly how she felt, and I felt powerless to do more about it. I wish that she knew that it had nothing to do with her, but I think that's the way she took it.
when my h was in his residency and working over 90 hours a week, I still felt that we "should" ML a few times a week even though I might not have been in the mood then.
But I feared that we'd grow apart. At one point I ininiated and h asked if I was "trying to kill" him...
Fortunately I laughed out loud but it did hit me at the moment, that he was really too tired to ML...and that it wasn't about ME or his desire for me.
When the times comes for Viagra, which I assume comes for every man at some point,
I will know it's Not me, it's his body. Women all need to know this.
But the thing is, some men don't bother telling their wives AND WORSE
some men do nothing about their low sex drives. That stinks.
Same goes for women entering menopause who shrug and say "well my life change came and I have no sex drive so that's it..."
TO me, that's like saying "I can't taste food anymore; it's too salty. So I'll just stop eating...AND I'll stop cooking for my h, too" Not okay.
Good luck with the doctor's appointment--don't avoid the information!
Embrace it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
