H's BIL's response to D14 All the message read was if he would please have H call or write to her. And asked why does everyone hate her, her mom, and her brother. o D14, nobody hates you and your brother is not related, I have heard of the letters you wrote in which you have expressed great resentmeant to your father, you are in an unfortunate situation in which in my opinion your mother uses you for leverage against your father to play on his emotions during this divorce, and facebook isn't exactly a secure means of communicating (You see, I don't know if this is you or your mother). If you really need to talk to me you know where I live and from what I saw at the Bazar you have many other fast ways of transportation other than your mother. D14, I was a teen when my parents divorced and know the games very well (leverage) you need to decide to make the right choices, When your older(Adult) and you used leverage in place of love you will regret it for the rest of your life. Once again you know where I live.
Idk tell my father to grow up and call me since I can't cause he changed his number on me and my mother don't use me and you have no clue what I and my brother have been going through you haven't been in our lifes in a very long time so you have no clue who my father really is. This is not the father that I grew up with. o My mom is blocked from my FB y does everyone blame her never mind I tried, too many people in middle of my dads n moms business I just give up. o I wasn't raised to say just cause of blood bout my brother n my dad told everyone he was his. This related stuff is junk I told my dad I loved n missed him n my mom doesn't even know bout the letter. Just forget it. My mom was right just to let it go my dad never drank like this n told me he wanted to come home but everyone is in the middle. He has my number.
If I knew my dad n all of u were going to be at the bazaar I would have never went my brothers girlfrineds boyfriend was there my mom gets blamed for everything n she thought u were a good guy guess not. Like I said never mind n my parents n mom aren't the same as your mom n dad. Tired of all of u hurting n being mean to us my mom still loves SS18 n SS16 that makes her a good mom no blood there, not related. This sounds like Aunt anyway. Sry but my letters to my dad were nice not mean n if he loves me he will call or write he does stuff just so u guys don't get mad. wanted my mom a lot since they had there problems but everyone gets in middle just like my brother was going to play pool if u guys don't know whole story stop blaming me n my mom n my brother that was mean to say about my brother! Now I'm done writing sry goodbye. H's BIL or Sister's response...I have NO clue. o D14, you came to me and my address never changed nor did your fathers, and I read some of the letters and heard some of the voice messages, so don't think for one minute i don't understand whats going on or what you had expressed, my number never changed you can call anytime, I think its time for you to leave your brother and your mother out of it and grow up and act your age if in deed you are willing to rebuild trust, and as far as being blocked on FB give me a break do you think I buy that I certainly hope you don't, I thought you were smarter than that.
D14's response
Why should i have to contact him I'm tired already its his turn to grow up and be a father.
Plus you never heard both sides so I guess my mom was wrong. You aren't a good guy just like everybody else. This was supposed to be between me n my dad not everyone all I asked was for u to plz have n let me know if my dad loves me still n u keep bringing up my mom n my brother. It's not fair the heck with it like my mom said I can't do this anymore I will find someone to be there for me besides my mom. Tired of all u knocking down my mom and brother u are mean just like everyone else in his family.
My dad did n so did everyone in the family but you. I'm not stupid I'm not ever coming there cause gram n aunt make fun of me. My counselor was right my dad is the one that needs to grow up not me. Goodbye. Won't bother u no more it's all them or nothing my dad should not tell anyone our business like my counselor told me he is the dad not a kid. I'm sick of my brother too getting treated like crap but he was ok for all the years right uncle how would u feel if this was u never mind the heck with it. But my mom was going to take my dad back till all u got in middle now she says no way thanks for nothing this is between my dad n me n my mom not all of u n we hurt n u don't care either. Ask my Dad, uncle X, aunt X, uncle XX, and aunt XX. I'm blocked by all them. Doesn't matter...I'm always wrong. My mom told me to say sorry 4 bothering u. So I'm sry. Just wanted u to tell my dad something n I get blamed 4 everything won't ever leave my mom or my brother out of anything they r my family. I am smart so stop saying I'm not.
