Originally Posted By: MrBond
If he wants to stay with you, C is a must. No excuses. He will continue to have feelings for the OW and if not her, then someone else until he figures out why he did it in the first place.



I agree. And he will continue to have feelings for the OW as long as he is in daily contact with her at work. That's just a physiological reality.

Can he request a transfer?


Starsky


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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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