Babies can be such a bonding experience. It's wonderful to hear that he is taking such an active role in caring for her. A lot of dad's don't do that especially when there is breast feeding involved.
As far as having a hard time getting her on a schedule, I only have one suggestion. My MIL gave me this suggestion because Marc was horribly coliky when he was about 1 month old but it had a wonderful side effect.....brew some chammomile tea, put a tiny bit of honey or sugar in it (sugar is best as honey is not suggested for infants), water it down to about half stregth and put in a bottle for her. About 2oz in the evening and it may help her sleep.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!