Wednesday my wife texted me to tell me that she hurt her finger. I was very supportive and asked if she needed any help.
Friday I had to go to the house to pick up a lot of my stuff, while my wife was at work. In the middle of the morning she texts me apologising for the house being a mess and saying that her finger is actually broken. Half hour later she sends me a text just with kisses (she didn't close the other text with kisses). I answer back saying that I'm upset because she's in pain and offering my help again. She answer saying that the pain isn't that bad and thanking for the help offer.
At night, she texts me again saying that she's healing quickly and hoping that I'm okay. I answered saying that she always healed good and wished her a good night sleep. I make a remark to something personal to us.
So, it seems that we now finally have a personal communication going on. We stopped talking about practical things and my wife is opening about her personal things. I've been GAL'ing...
I'm being cautious and I'm not rushing. First, I need to protect myself because I don't know what are my wife's intentions yet. But I'm completely receptive to her...
How should I proceed from now on? Do you guys have any good advices from your personal experience? My objectives here are two: first, protect myself from false hopes and from falling down the hole again; second, safe my marriage.
Thank you!
Reverse the order of your goals...or lose the "I don't get hurt" one altogether.
We all take risks here.
IF you want a guaranteed result, then you should not have married.
Be the best man you can be, permanently, (not just temporarily as a tactic.
Then leave the results up to God.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
