into you, sweet, compliments, treat you like a queen - all great
not so smart (or even if it is just your perception) - you are right to not pursue it. You need to respect the person you are with, have them be your equal.
For other potentials, you might have to get past the "lack of chemistry." Your "choser" might very well be off, and that is all chemicals. Give it three dates with a nice guy- once you know someone better, you might find a spark. If not, you learned something along the way.
Now, for me, I am having to try to get over the bald thing. I keep thinking of Charlotte from Sex in the City.....a great guy might come in an unexpected package. (Special note for our fellows here - if you are balding, just shave it all off - it looks so much better than that half-and-half thing!) At your age, you probably won't have that much of an issue with hair
