My husband says he is starting to fall a little back in love with me but since he has to see the other women in the office each day it is hard and the feeling for her come back when he sees her. He is military so he does not have a chose but to put up with it. We leave here in Nov but I have to deal with him having to see her until then. He is trying to work at things with me but he is not helping me at all with my turmoil. He is being attentive but not with my pain. He will not talk about that. he will not talk about my feelings of resentment, betrayal or anything that will heal this. I can not bring them up since I am not on any type of solid ground with him since he still has feelings for her. He is thinks being "in love" is more important and stronger than the love we have shared for our 11 years of marriage. I want to GAL but I have no one to really hang out with in the evenings and weekends. I work but I started a new job in Apr and I have not really connected with people in my new office enough to stat up friendship outside of work. I am shy and so troubled by my family life that I am focused on it. Plus my husband is at work a lot and I have a 9 and 7 year old. How do I handle my H still having feelings for OW and him not being able to let go of them?
