Telemark - Agree! Right now I'm taking things slowly, starting to change little things I had always disliked but didn't care enough to argue about. Next will be stuff *I* like on the walls .. and then maybe rearranging.
I'm planning to put a piano-keyboard in the office where his desk used to be. I always wanted one - I've played forever - but we never "had room" (even though we had room for his big ol' recliner that no one ever used).
Honestly, even the times when I miss him, I don't miss him all that much.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11