Anyways I was not even planning on bringing up the picture unless the issue came up. My real question is "why the contact" get to the bottom of it cause you are stopping me from healing. You want to reconcile? Then say it. You need more time? THen say it. You are scared? Then say it. Don't call me with some poor excuse to call. At some point all the little games need to stop and you have to address the issue.
Good. This was my main concern. It sounded as if you were planning on bringing this up in your other post.
I understand where you are coming from. But this shouldn't take one of your 2 hour conversations.
I know you feel she led you on. Purposefully. But if you say you do not want contact, but then continue to engage her. You are doing the same thing. Actions not consistent with words.
This could be completed in one simple statement...
"Our incidental contact is slowing my growth and my commitment to move on with my life. If you are ever interested in reconciling our R, I am open to discussing this. Otherwise, I wish you well in your life without me."
Good luck man.
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