Telemark, I am glad to see you're holding up OK through all of this and we can occasionally make you laugh.
I think it was hardest for a few days after the move. I started having thoughts like, "She's been gone 4 days, shouldn't she be missing me by now?" I was overwhelmed at first with taking care of the house and all of the related work, planning meals for my S, and making sure my S got off to the school bus on time.