It seems like you have not yet dropped the proverbial 'rope'. Yea it can hurt. But at this point it looks like your X has moved on. You too need to be at a better place for yourself and your daughter. The world is big and i am sure it has a lot to offer you which will make this pain bearable. Over time you might look back at this time not with hurt but with forgiveness.

Move on forward 2step! (fine print: I know very easy to say but hard to do)

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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...