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How am I doing ? I think considering what just happened I am doing pretty good now....still hurts like crazy but I have to remain strong. She is now a person that is capable of hurting other people....that is what she has become and she will have to live with it not me.


If you feel pretty good about how you're doing, I think thats a good sign.

Your W will be the one who has to live with her decisions. Unfortunately, this is how the world works.

Do you want to be with someone who would be completely ok with doing something like that? Not to discourage you or try to re-frame your W as bad. I just think its good to take this time as an opportunity to keep examining the kind of person you would like the be.

Hang in there.. you'll lead a better life either way.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.