RO, the worst thing you can do right now be a presence to your W. When our spouses say they need "time and space", nothing else will do. We have to give it to them.

Leave her alone. Don't talk about anything that is not of life-or-death importance. No phone calls, no e-mails, no text messages, no smoke signals...nothing.

It is a hard fact to face, but she wants nothing to do with you right now, and the more you chase, the faster she will run.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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