hang in there bud. i know this part is tough, very tough

Imagine your w on one side of a door and you on the other

The more pressure you put on your side of the door the more she resist and does not allow you.

You know what happens when you stop pushing the door.

Human nature

She relieves the pressure because there is nothing pushing against it anymore.

Little by little she begins to let go and eventually she opens it to see why you are not pushing

The point is NOT to lay down but to keep your anger in check and you can make the same point without attacking.

i am all for taking the high road but you take it not to be the better person but to take the better position for the fight.

The more she fights the less you resist

You react with kindness but by being sturn

You can't shoot an unarmed man.

When she has nothing to fight then she cannot attack

Praying for ya bud

BITS