well... 25 once told me not to score keep... so I haven't...
but, from when I left til now... I could seriously count the number of days my kids have been with me on the digits of an adult chimpanzee...
because "the kids are busy and booked"... and I have had scheduled time with the kids (no court order), she's asked me for stuff in advance and I would say "no thank you" and then she'd be all pissy and literally tell me the kids suddenly had plans... I finally got her to fess up she was withholding...
but... no court order... no recourse... I'm at her whim until I deal with custody and we disagree so it must be in court.
oh and the phone thing...
yeah... she is SOOOOO playing you...
Basically... one step at a time... this is a withdrawal for you and you feel totally under her control... AND YOU ARE...
man, put your brave face on and your pleasant words...
figure out your boundaries before she decides to tap the phone and get you all RAMBO on the phone with her...
