I'm still in shock I guess. I knew she wasn't going to be happy about the evaluation, but to threaten not allowing me to see my kids. That is complete and utter nonsense.

She doesn't realize that is the exact behavior that the court does not want to see. Some of the convo as I remember it:

W: You changed you mind on the agreement.

M: I am allowed to change my mind. I want to be in our kids lives. You have changed your mind.

W: When?

M: Remember April 26, 1997?

W: You didn't take care of me!!

M: That is bullshit and you know that is not true!

W: You just can't face the truth and you can't handle losing me.

M: That is complete bullshit!! You can continue blaming me, because I am used to it. Whatever makes you feel better.

W: I can look in the mirror and I can sleep at night.

M: I don't have a problem sleeping or looking in the mirror.

I remember bit by bit.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa