Thanks KD and I hope you’re right. I came home from working out tonight about an hour ago and she said she was right that she overreacted to the whole Y thing. I told her that it is a nice place and we should have joined earlier. She said she was furious. Incidentally, I think my resistance to joining in the past was a pretty big deal to her. I can see why now. My reversal on wanting to join was a shock to her.

She had also packed a bag. She left and said she will be back on Wednesday. Said she needs to figure things out. Find out why she’s so upset. This could either be very good or very bad….not sure how it could get much worse. Like I’ve said before, she is literally the nicest person I have ever met and I’ve been around the block a few times. She has tremendous anger and hostility inside her right now. She is not a decision maker. This D decision has to be especially agonizing for her. That is not good. She is not equipped to deal with it. She might be feeling the BGP’s tightening up.

This was supposed to be “her night” with the kids. She had them for 3+ hours and they said she didn’t play with them at all. Very out of character. I played a quick game with them before bed.
I have to say, I am worried about her. In light of the recent tragedy from one of our fellow DB’ers, I am concerned. I sent her and her best friend a text and have not rcvd a response from either. I hope she is ok.