I suggest you REALLY think about what forgiveness means. And if what you are feeling now is TRUE forgiveness.
This is not a dig at all. Just a very humble opinion from what I saw in myself.
Your reason for wanting R may not be forgiveness at all. If it is TRUE forgiveness, why are you so eager to tell her?
Do you expect something from it? From her?
great points.
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