Going N/C wish me perseverance/strength

[a girl]

I am angry that one person's actions have necessitated all these changes in not just my life, but my family's.

Just wanted to address this - I struggle with this almost daily - the fact that two people (H and OW) have caused so much disruption in the lives of so many people. It seems so unfair that they get to blithely wander off and do whatever they want, while we're left to pick up the pieces.