Hey IP, I am so sorry to see you are going through this crap again. frown I can see you are a whole lot stronger this time around. Sorry I have not been here to check in for a few weeks.
You said about the letter he wrote, that he admitted that some of what was in it was true, but the main bad thing, PA, was not. He's being annoyingly nice because he knows he been busted, and you are not going to believe him this time. He thinks if he pampers you and brings you tea and stuff, you will begin to imagine such a nice guy has to be telling the truth, which is kinda what he did before. If you can be kind, but detached, and let him see you will take no nonsense from him this time, maybe he will begin to see that he has really screwed up big time. You didn't do a darn thing, except to trust him the way a wife should, it's all on him. I know how hard you have worked on your M.
vc crazy