Welcome to the MLC board. You will find lots of caring, kind and supportive people here. Our main focus is the LBS and helping them to see that working on oneself puts a lot of other things .
From what you state, your H's antics have gone on far too long. Boundary setting is in order. He has taken from you long enough. If you want advice on how to go about setting boundaries, we'll help you.
Sounds like you H has a nice cushy life. Wondering what would happen if he thought that might not be there anymore?
One more thing. Stick to one thread until you get to 100 posts. Then you start a new one. That helps us all by just having one to respond to. You can ask all your questions in one. Also you will be moderated for a while and your posts probably won't show up right away. After a while they'll show right when you hit submit.
