Wife no longer in love with me

[cam]

I just texted her and apologized for this morning and telling her to get all her stuff out of the house. I feel like Im always apologizing.
Just said that I know I cant change her mind and I can't make her happy, but I wish she would look at me and us for what we had and what was good about us and the love, common bond, fun and friendship we shared for so long.
Again probably wrong to contact her, but thats it now. I will leave her be and se what happens.

[♪CS♪]

cam, PLEASE stop.

I KNOW the pain.

BUT STOP!

Please?

Be that cheeky bastard.

NOW!

[cam]

I know. I have.
Its just been a very tough, very emotional weekend. And she hurt me more.

[cam]

So my W wants to catch up this weekend to chat. I know it won't be anything positive, either she is with someone else, or she's moving back to the States asap.
Any thoughts on whether I should meet her, or just ignore it?
I know I won't react well to whatever she says, if it's all negative, given what she said last weekend thats what I'm expecting.

[~ kd ~]

You can do a number of things...

don't respond... which might piss her off... and there's other negatives like, you'll maybe not get to know what's on her mind...

or respond with a simple, "sure, when"...

or you could say... "I've got a few things that I have going on this weekend... when would work for you... what's on your mind...?"

Then you get to let her know you have a life and it's good and busy (don't lie, make that happen) and also it opens up the possibility that she'll tell you why she wants to chat... and then if it's bad... you can choose not to meet...

[♪CS♪]

^^^ Sounds good.

Be strong man.

I know you have it in you.

[cam]

I'm thinking about 'going dark' on this whole situation now. I'm read a little bit about it, but not sure if its appropriate for my position.
But I'm just sick of dealing with it.
I'm trying to fight for someone who has completely shut down her feelings for me and can't see any positives of being together. There would be absolutely no contact from her if I didn't initiate it in someway, and I really feel she has now moved on.
I'm not sure what this will achieve, but I'm just done now. I don't want to see her on the weekend, and I don't want to 'talk' anymore.
She has made me feel so guilty and all to blame for getting us here, even though I have made so many profound changes to my life for the better for us. Just all too late. Last weekend was the clincher for me - she really showed she doesn't care and there is no turning back for her. She has gone past the point of no return, so time for me to just stepa away and let her go to find the 'happiness' she craves.

[cam]

My W just emailed me to say thank you for some mail I sent her. And then she says:
"I'm sorry Cam but as I said before I think we both just need to move on"

Any thoughts on how I should respond to this??

[♪CS♪]

And then she says:
"I'm sorry Cam but as I said before I think we both just need to move on"

cam, you're leaving something out I am guessing.

What was she replying to? What did you say?

[cam]

It was in reference to the weekend and what we discussed (the same stuff as usual).