Whoa...I would slow everything way down. First, how long have you been divorced? You need to take the time to love yourself first and to fulfull ALL your needs before going out looking for validation from someone else. You can't gain happiness from someone else, it must come from you. You have to be completely okay with being alone before you even think about being with someone else.
You don't attract what you want you attract what you are. Some people on this board tend to make fun of that statement, but I'm telling you it's true. If you want to attract an emotionally healthy and emotionally available partner, then you have to become that partner. I don't think either one of you are in a place to be dating. It all sounds very superficial and juvenile to me. You are in an emotional state. What's the hurry? Step back and work on yourself awhile so you can attract people who are ready and capable of being in a relationship.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
