It used to upset me when my W made comments or showed concern about my well being...
I think back that maybe I should have shown more gratitude to her well wishes...
The thing is, it just felt so empty... just projecting her guilt that I won't (be able to) take care of myself... and at this time, it certainly DOES feel like it was empty, as it certainly wasn't coming from a place of spousal care, as she was and continues to be with OM...
but... the high road would be, show gratitude to their well wishes... it's not a horrible thing to accept and be open to... no matter where it might be coming from...
That's my story, but the point is. If she's thinking about your health, she's thinking about you... and no matter what... that's a good thing...
That's where your sitch is better than those whose WAS appear to not be thinking about their LBSs much, if at all...
