Thanks you guys! You're the bestest.

Julz - My H is only taking a few "big" things like his desk, a big safe I don't even like, his lazyboy (which is already gone) and his grill.

When he took half the kitchen stuff, it was kind of nice to not have such a cluttered kitchen. He'll be taking some books (I think we're sorting those out next weekend) which will give me more room for my books, so again, that's not bad.

Anyway, I cycle - I'm ok, I'm not ok, etc. But my "not ok" right now is so different than my "not ok" of a month ago (because it's only been a month since I found out about his affair) that it's amazing - so I know that my 'not ok' in another month will be even better. Baby steps, but movement nonetheless.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11