I posted to you earlier about Eulogies and the grief class I took as part of a Hospice program job I had.
If you focus on making the eulogy serve it's purposes, it'll come more naturally. To re-cap
The Purpose of a Eulogy
-to honor the departed; and
-comfort the living.
Pause when you get up there, take a deep breath. Pause every time you fear loss of composure
and take a deep breath, letting it all out. Focus on an inanimate object like the woodgrain of the podium or the bricks on the walls, if you must...
to get through it. Why?
B/C you want people including your sons, to know your wife.
(Not so much about how much it hurts you...
I only say that b/c our son did that at his grandmother's funeral and kind of forgot to make it about HER...he's young & it's fine of course. But he regretted it later).
Tell the people about her. If you want, try it out here first...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
