Wow! What a wreck the W is! Last night, I went to check the mail and a package that she sent to OM a month a go was returned by the good ol' Post Office. The whole day yesterday she went out to "motorcycle bar run", riding with "somebody from work"; which is pretty much drinking and driving from bar to bar and town to town. She left at noon and came back stinkin' drunk at 5:45 am the next morning and tried to sneak in. Needless to say she woke up the daughter and me. I said nothing about the package and her being gone for so long. Now she texted me saying that she has "cut all ties with OM", although he is stil on her facebook. I am not getting sucked in to this though and will not begin to trust her again until I am absolutely sure she has changed for the better and she needs to prove that A is truely over. I will not demand this until later as i know the A will probably still go on, but it is a bandaid. Even if A with OM is over, she may have replaced him with a guy more accessable. Apparently OM is in a band traveling al over the country and won't be back until Oct., so I am betting I haven't seen the last of this stuff. I still plan on moving out in a month or two, unless she renegs on her demand for me to move. Personally, I think we probably both need the time alone to ourselves and it would help me detach more. I am not snooping in W's business, but unfortunately she hasn't been so bright in keeping her business a secret and it is pretty much right in front of my eyes. Welcome to the rollercoster ride! Going up!


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12