I wrote in a post in Newcomers about the theory that life is filed with moments of:
growth -> | stability | -> decay
Where stability may actually be non-existent in the sense that if we are not growing, then in reality, we may be in decay...
Anyhow, the point being, right now things "appear" stable in your sitch, regardless of the newly discovered A...
IOW, there's been some change ups, different behaviours by both you AND your W, but otherwise "more of the same"...
Think about this for a bit... what's the goal, here? To be a man only a fool would leave... and with that, also to be more attractive to ANY woman... and possibly your W...
So...
What might be some things that you know your W doesn't like about you, that you have not addressed, and do a 180 on them...
Or what might you be able to choose as a GAL activity, that you may actually enjoy and keep doing, that your W might be interested in...
Because you are in one of those sitchs that many LBS would like to be in, where there's enough consistent contact with their WAS that our changes would be more quickly noticed, as opposed to maybe never noticed...
