how is your obsessive negative behavior going? I mean, are you getting help?
do you see the role your own behavior played? The comment she made about wanting to have an affair if the sex life didn't improve...
have you learned anything about that? You might want to read "The Sensuous Man" or any number of books out there about sex and how to make it better.
There's no shame in it. The shame lies in getting your own cookies and leaving her wanting...
Ignoring her very very telling comment was NOT a good idea, as I'm sure you know. But what have you DONE about that issue? It's a biggie.
And while OM is certainly an obstacle to healing the m,
can you also see that YOU MUST SHOW your w that
marriage to you today, & from this day forward,
would be better than before?
How are you showing her that?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
