Reflection

[GAL Man]

Your post is showing you are still attached... I'm sure we all are, to some degree...

I know I am, still, after 3 bloody months!!!, but I feel its getting better

Still, it sounds you are doing well enough... in my books...

Thanks Kaffe, always appreciated

Picked myself up this evening and got off my arse.....

Cleaned the kitchen, dining room, hall and lounge. Now time to relax with a film.

Tomorrow.............. The upstairs LOL

Wednesday, England V Holland LOL
Thursday, Friend Bday, so out for a curry
Friday, Poker night at other friends (No drinking as will drive)
Sat, Maybe go out again, but plan DIY for the Sunday

I'm guessing you are going to snoop, since this claim by a W that doesn't know your W so well suggesting your W might have OM...

Just to think about this... are you ready for the consequences?

I havent snooped, and dont plan too...... I think maybe this OW had another agenda LOL

Seriously though, what good would snooping do me, closure, dealbreaker? not going to do it, if it is true it will come out in the wash, then I will address it accordingly

I just got off the phone to my friend I was out with, and actually said to him I was proud of conducting myself this way (i.e. not getting involved) and that I have morals and beliefs which I will stick too, and two wrongs (if W has OM) dont make a right. I also said I know mates encourage this and what to see you "move on" but thats not me, if something happens it will, but I wont force things. He actually said fair play

And this bit about thinking about your W so much... how's that working for you?

What is happening in your life that is allowing you to dedicate so much thought on your W?

Work is quiet ATM, it goes from one extreme to the other, week before last was busy, so not too bad, last week quiet, things will be busy again for the next week or two, so this is good.

Plus I always seem to be on a "downer" after a night out, I think its an age thing LOL. I know how I will be the day before but I still fail to think of something to counter it, plus I dont have the kids. RIGHT, next time some DIY (as I wont risk driving the next day)

Otherwise, seems your being well! Keep moving forward!

Thanks as aways

Actually been thinking tonight that, whilst I love my W, OUR needs were not being met by the other, so unless this could change (I know I can) its not for me........

Head, please tell heart this ^^^^^^^^^^