9, I apologize for missing your first post, like, by a mile.
You have my deep sympathies for you and your family. Why did this have to happen, we may never have an answer, but you have many who care about you through this and what comes after. Don't mean to speak for all of us, but we will do what we can to be of support to you. God is with you too. Take care, bro. Keep posting.
I just checked in to the site (since Thursday), and saw your post. I have been staring numbly at the screen, trying to take in what happened. I have tears in my eyes for you and your sons.
I am so deeply, truly sorry.
You do not own this.
I can offer no words to you other than my most sincere and heartfelt prayers will be lifted for you and your family.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
9- Words cannot express the sorrow we all feel for you. Very sorry for your loss. Please be strong. AC
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012
Accept the help of friends and family for anything offered or needed. There is nothing wrong with accepting it.
As for the boys viewing their mom, that call is up to you. Right or wrong, you're their father no matter what anyone else says. You're a good man and a good father so it's not anyone else's call.
My prayer's are with your and your boys, who I just noticed are the same age as mine.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
I am so sorry. You and your boys are in my prayers.
My aunt committed suicide, there are a lot of mixed emotions with it. I was angry with her for a long time, she was only 3 years older than me so we were more like siblings. You and your boys will have to work through a lot of emotions but it is not your fault. Nothing you did or didn't do would have stopped her. Please do not add guilt to your already full plate. it is not your fault. Take care of you and your boys. Lots of love and prayers.
can you let us know when the funeral is, and how YOU are? mega hugs
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
