Kaffee, I think that's a great way to approach my "list". I've been reading the board for months, and your advice is consistently good, so thank you for taking the time to respond.
A little journaling -- H returned from camping with S7 a day early because S missed his mommy. So sweet. I told H I was going to weed the garden and he offered to help (this is unusual). Later, H said he wasn't feeling well so he went to lie down at 7pm. He texted me to say he wasn't avoiding me (hmmmm....) He never got up and slept until the next morning. He didn't ask about my list so I guess I've bought myself another day...
Anyway, H was pleasant this morning, gave me a long hug and offered to run out and grab me a special coffee. I'm going to take the kids to a movie today and do some errands.
