Forget about the trip. Unless she brings it up, do not mention it again. It is making her nervous and uncomfortable and those feelings are being associated with YOU. Not what you want.
Quote:
W: The hardest part of all of this is losing my best friend…just want you to know that. I hate I can’t talk to you when I want. My heart truly aches.
^^^ this is important here.
What is her motivation for changing course if she gets both? She needs to miss you man.
The other thing that hit me reading this, and this has been said by many here, many times.
This is not about OM.
Now she is looking at someone else.
It’s not the person, it’s the idea that they are searching for. The freedom. The excitement. The newness. And probably the biggest, a way OUT of the M.
But it is not the actual person, so don’t focus on him.
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
