Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
This much I know about reconciliation

It does not work while one person has anger towards another

When the blame is gone and accountability shines through then you might have something to talk about


I must admit, this hit home with me 2step.

I find myself being accountable for my part, however I feel that some of my behavior was justified based on other circumstances.

Some of those circumstances brought on by my W and my MIL. I have attempted to justify my actions with words to my W, unfortunately this is useless. I will own my part and quit trying to justify my actions from this point forward.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa