I'm confused. What exactly did you do that was different?
On the first point I was responding immediately after our talk, obiously that was premature, as the day played out much better than I expected. Clearly it achived a better result than I had anticipated immediatly following our conversation. So basically Having a Relationship talk did help.
On the second point I had been going dim, avoiding relationship talk. Obviously that was good to give her time to sort things out, but now she was glad we had talked and felt better about things and agreed to being more open communication and more time together.
I am going to slowly introduce more family activities together, and when I see positive momentum and signs of interest from my W, I will start dating her again. My thinking is an informal family time with the kids will create positive memories and open her heart. I am also going to keep working on my GAL.
My goal is to win her over again just like I did when we were dating. I know that is a long term process and now I have to be cautious to do whats working and abandon what doesnt. Only carefull DBing at this point will help me keep "My foot in the door"
Johnnie
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
