What I had been doing was not working, so I did something different and got a positive result.
Now I can build on that. The goal is to rebuild.
I was posting immediately after our talk, and then monitoring the results. At the end of the day, the results were very positive. That was the goal. Now I have something to build on.
Like I told her. "sometimes things have to hit rock bottom. We are there now. Now things can only get better"
I know communication, my lasting changes, quality time together... Those are the keys. I captured her heart once, I lost my way, she pulled away and now I will do my best to recapture her heart again. She said it. In her own words "They (our kids) need to see both of us happy". It is the first positive sign I have seen since I began DB.
I just had to change my approach...
And I did.
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
