Most certainly there is deception going on at some level. A secret email address certainly says that.
There's a lot of computer time. So there's something going on there. But my feeling is that it may be a number of cyber based quasi EA's. More like she's searching for an EA. Maybe there is one but if so probably with someone who can't take it further than a few sneaked emails.
I did pick up a call the other day from a married guy friend of hers. He's in another state and they talk every couple of months. When I answered he said sorry wrong number even though he knows me. Little fishy. She does comment or like just about every one of his facebook posts. He has had a multitude of failed marriages.
She has always had a lot of guy friends. Even in our wedding she had bridesmen. It hasn't been until somewhat recently that she has had girlfriends. Which fits with her disdain for womanly things. I really wish she would own being a woman. She'd make a good one.
