Thanks Hopeforgood, I have been trying to do a lot of thought blocking lately. I have joined the apa pool league and trying to keep myself busy. Its just been hard because this has been going on for 6 months now. My work and school life looks better than my personal life.
I'm tempting at this place and they are impressed with my work and want me hired on. I'm almost done with my bachelor's in psychology I should finish that by the end of this year. I have had NC with the H in a month I might as well go dark. I don't know how much of a difference it will make.
H is avoiding any contact with me since the OW (roommate) is now 2 1/2 months pregnant. I don't know if he is as excited as she is about it. She was on birth control she probably planned it and told him not to use a condom. Stupid Borderline personality disorder OW...grrrr...
I'm not going to worry about either one of them. I'm just going to stick to doing my puzzles, pool league, school, work, and hanging out with friends. I really do envy all of you that have been married longer than I have, I just wish I could make it that far. I know its not easy and takes a lot of work to get there.
M 27 H 27 M 1yr and 5mths together: 8yrs no kids separated since: 1/26/11 H filed and had me served: 7/6/11