What a sweet story about your wife and her buying the Wii for your son. Write the good memories down as they come to you, and encourage your boys to do the same. Compile them and read them together or during alone time when you need to feel close to her. You might encourage other family members and friends to do the same and email or mail or to you over the coming days and weeks. Cherish the good times, and when you are able, let go of everything else. I pray that the Lord will fill you with strength and all the right words to share in her eulogy. As my Mother reminds me often, "If He brought you to it, He'll bring you through it." Easier said than done, but it is true...the Lord will never give us more than we can handle. Love to you and yours....lc4