While I get that she is nuts, I am trying really hard to look at these silly moves as steps closer to eliminating her from my life completely. If she continues down this path, she will no doubt lose our son as well and then the contact shall be gone completely. While some would view that as a horrible loss for my son, the way she is now I believe it to be a gift rather than a loss. She once asked me if I thought she was a piece of [censored] and in my DB stance I of course said no. I lied, she really is.
She once asked me if I thought she was a piece of [censored] and in my DB stance I of course said no. I lied, she really is.
You gotta love it when they fill in the words for you. Mine used the 'b' word to describe what she believed I must think of her instead of the piece of 's' word. I believe my response was more along the lines of..."if that is the way you feel about yourself, then so be it".
One of the phrases I passed to her which she found quite crude at the time...
"You are making a sh!t sandwhich and eventually you will have to eat it".
Right before the D was final, she told me that she was eating the sandwich and that I must be laughing. I said that I was not, but deep down I had a bit of Schadenfreude.
Sorry to hear your X got remarried. Mine is scheduled to get remarried to the OW in September. I haven't been on here in a really long time and my name was Iluv2teach before. I was glad to see BrandNewDay, Lissie, and I think, fig here. I think about many of you often and several others are friends on Facebook.
Going on with my life but have no desire to enter another relationship. Some friends tried to set me up this weekend. Not interested. I was married for 21 years and have been divorced for 4 years but still not ready. I figure God will let me know when the time is right. Bless you all!!
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
