Not sure what state (province?) you're in, but given the prevalence of OM in your wife's history, are you considering having any sort of 'morality clause' added to your parenting plan?
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11