elwood, I know I have alot to prove to him, but does this mean that I would have to start everything. When he is ready, shouldn't he let me know. I have touched his arm a few times, stood really close to him, he has never told me to stop touching him or don't get too close to me, but with my daughter around, I would feel weird kissing him goodbye or even giving him a goodbye hug. since the comedy show is out, I will have to look around for something else to invite him too.