Everything you have done. One thing I know. YOU know. Has been done with your heart. It has been with, driven by, love. You know this, I am sure. With this, there is absolutely no reason for you to beat yourself up AT ALL.
No reason for this to change for the eulogy and obituary.
Speak from the heart. You know this well.
For the latter, I guess I suggest involving other family members. It may help you and them as well.
9, I am not sure if you saw my post above about trying to find a way to send condolences.
If you can, let me know your thoughts. If it is something you would like. I understand either way.
If dbmod, jack, Virginia, etc is reading, I do have one suggestion. Just a suggestion.
We send our items to the DB office.
The office can ensure items do not jeopardize the anonymousness of the posters/board.
You would have to give your contact info to the DB office.
They would then ship the items to you.
Of course there is cost with this. I have no problem funding this. If others would like to donate, perhaps a Paypal account could be setup or something. But nonetheless. Money is not an issue here. I have no problem sending a check.
Maybe this is a pipe dream.
But let me know.
Both 9 and the mods.
Thanks.
God bless Pete.
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