Did you really "call her back" to tell her you might join the Y, as well?
Not saying it's a bad idea that you're joining the Y to get active and meet people...
I'm just wondering... after the first conversation that your W told you she was thinking about it...
What do you think was going through your W's mind when you called her up to tell her you might, too...?
Other than that, I think your doing a great job trying to figure our your GALing... you might be surprised where you meet people when you do the same things in public venues enough times...
