well, the asking him to the comedy show is out. I heard from some people at work that it's all about the stupid things guys do in relationships (sorry guys!) so I don't think he would want to sit have have an evening of male bashing, and I would feel uncomfortable. Its a comedy show that is good for girls night out. but on Sunday when I dropped daughter off, he asked me to stay for dinner and I felt so sick that day, but said yes to the oppotunity. He looked so cute cooking dinner and it was the worse thing I have ever tasted--the dogs were happy while daughter and I fed them under the table. Hey, he tried. I would like to initate some "friskey" stuff but afraid I will get turned down and then we would fight again and I would lose what I ready have, which I am grateful for