I thing my W is out GAL’ing me!!!! She has been going out with different friends several nights a week. She is joining the YMCA. She has friends relatives that are recently divorced and asking her to go out. I don’t have the friend network here and the people I do know are married or not the kind of guys I’m used to hanging out with. The things I am interested in are not a great place to meet new people my age and situation. I own my own business so don’t meet many people there. I like to golf and have started volunteering at Habitat for Humanity. These are not exactly great places to meet new people and more specifically, women. It just seems that everything my W is doing are creating opportunities for her to meet OM. I need to get on that track but don’t have the network. This will be a challenge for me.
She did call me today and told me she wanted to join the Y. I said fine. I also called her back and said I might want to join it too. Don’t plan on going with her but it would be a good outlet and potential area to meet people. I don’t want to cheat on my wife, but it sure would be nice to know I have options after this D is completed. It would be good for my confidence too. I need to find more social groups.
I also think that the fact we’re living together is forcing her into these social situations because she cannot get the separation she says she needs with us living under the same roof. Not sure what to do about this one.
