are there any logistical or ritual issues we can help you with?
IDK what I'm exactly saying but
Maybe let your boys say something or write something...for her funeral?
Or a private letter to her that goes with her...
just tossing out ideas.
For example, We put notes/messages to our dad in his coffin with him,
and we tossed dirt into the grave with my mother going first.
Mom said "C'est fini" (she's French Canadian) and
it felt like a goodbye ritual that helped us conceptualize that he was truly gone. Or "finalize" it.
Somehow it helped me.
Again, I'm SOOO sorry 9.
((( )))
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